Jan
28
Ruby asked:
Seeing as this subject has been brought up manytimes in this section, I’m posting it here. I know it is not only Egyptian men who commit such an act, but many of them are just finding it a way of getting out of their country in search of the so-called American dream. They take advantage of naive women and make them think they’re in love with them (while they’re only in love with their citizenship) so they can be legal residents. They would even go for divorced women with kids or women who are much older to them (to westerners- this is very untraditional in the middle east unlike in the west) I have seen/heard of many failing examples of men, Egyptians and non-Egyptians, who have done that. Not only are they taking advantage of the woman they marry and deceiving her, but they’re also ruining their life and spending a big part of it with some1 they don’t love and eventually end up being divorced. I personally think that such undecent men r half-men who have no pride in themselves.
Some ppl excuse them cuz of the harsh circumstances they face in their own country. But is there really an excuse for doing this? If ppl cant find what they dream of in their own country and wish to find it abroad, they can still make their dream come true but in a decent,non-deceiving way, not just go online and chat with an american or european citizen and next day make her think he’s in love with her. Also, I don’t blame it only on the man,but also on the women who are despearate,stupid,and naive enough to believe he’s in love with her. A very close person to me is going through this and I don’t know what to do with her, she wouldn’t listen no matter how much I clarify things to her
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it’s not illegal- they do it the legal way
Beautiful- I am an American citizen too and while I was living in USA, I faced the same problem with guys claiming love while all they’re after is my status, but who are they fooling? I’m the last one on earth who could fall for this!
and al7amdu lilah, Allah rewarded me with a very good husband who is EGYPTIAN CITIZEN! but is totally against the idea of going to usa.
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Seeing as this subject has been brought up manytimes in this section, I’m posting it here. I know it is not only Egyptian men who commit such an act, but many of them are just finding it a way of getting out of their country in search of the so-called American dream. They take advantage of naive women and make them think they’re in love with them (while they’re only in love with their citizenship) so they can be legal residents. They would even go for divorced women with kids or women who are much older to them (to westerners- this is very untraditional in the middle east unlike in the west) I have seen/heard of many failing examples of men, Egyptians and non-Egyptians, who have done that. Not only are they taking advantage of the woman they marry and deceiving her, but they’re also ruining their life and spending a big part of it with some1 they don’t love and eventually end up being divorced. I personally think that such undecent men r half-men who have no pride in themselves.
Some ppl excuse them cuz of the harsh circumstances they face in their own country. But is there really an excuse for doing this? If ppl cant find what they dream of in their own country and wish to find it abroad, they can still make their dream come true but in a decent,non-deceiving way, not just go online and chat with an american or european citizen and next day make her think he’s in love with her. Also, I don’t blame it only on the man,but also on the women who are despearate,stupid,and naive enough to believe he’s in love with her. A very close person to me is going through this and I don’t know what to do with her, she wouldn’t listen no matter how much I clarify things to her
(it’s not illegal- they do it the legal way
Beautiful- I am an American citizen too and while I was living in USA, I faced the same problem with guys claiming love while all they’re after is my status, but who are they fooling? I’m the last one on earth who could fall for this!
and al7amdu lilah, Allah rewarded me with a very good husband who is EGYPTIAN CITIZEN! but is totally against the idea of going to usa.
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