Penny’s from Heaven asked:


Since finding out about my husbands adultry, I’ve been scrambling to find a lawyer. As a homemaker, I’ve been thrust into searching for employment. Until a job is found, I have no source of income for myself and my 2 children… outside of what my husbands promises to give.

I have looked into all 3 options, but have no idea which is best. I’m tending to lean away from divorce as I will need and outside witness to testify that he did, indeed, cheat. His admitting it is not enough in the State of Ohio. So far, he has complied with all of my wishes, but this could soon end when reality sinks in and he realises what he has lost and is about to lose.

What is the best of these 3 choices and why?

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Ana Bella asked:


My HB has been patronizing casual encounters section on Craigslist, Adultfriendfinder and is now contacting women for erotic NSA adult fun. He has emailed escort services. I kicked him out 2 weeks ago and I am filing for divorce. HW, I am so scared for my children. He has been searching sites during visitation times. All he cares about is hooking up with someone. He is online for hours per day searching for sex. He refuses to discuss any important matters and becomes verbally abusive to me during exchanges in front of the kids. He is clearly out of control. I want to protect the kids from him and I want Full custody. I have proof of his activities via keylogger reports. However, I believe these are inadmissable in court. How the h*** do I prove he is unfit without these reports?????? Its so unfair!! I dont care about money, or any property. I just want my kids. What can I do??? Anything? Anyone?? I am so desperate for some help about this subject. I consulted with a lawyer and she said that unfortunately, the records cant be brought up b/c I obtained the info via keylogger. I want to cry. Has anyone else been thru this? What can I do???? I am in NY.

Ann Coulter’s Man Hand asked:


Me and my husband are both Christians, and wanted a real Christian wedding. On our wedding night, I thought it was just nerves, but we’ve been together for over 6 months and there’s still nothing goin on down there. Of course divorce is out of the question, but is it too much to ask for satisfaction in the bedroom? I keep searching for the moral solution to this problem and I just can’t think of one.

Thrivana asked:


I have been searching but I cant find anything. Where, in San Diego CA, do I go to get divorce papers. Are there multipule places? Can I go to where I got married ( since we went to a court house and got married)?

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Sunnyvale_Girl asked:


Anyone ever have a divorce cake made in the Nor Cal bay area? have heard of it from Florida and New York but in searching the Internet – haven’t found any recommended places in the bay area. Normally, I’m not into celebrating the breaking up of a marriange but – special circumstances…my friend is getting a divorce from a man who beat her and basically treated her like crap…I’d like to help her celebrate moving on and thought I’d look into divorce cakes. Has anyone used a Nor Cal bakery or custom cake maker to put together a divorce cake … and would you recommend them? If yes, please provide name/city of the lead (and phone # if you have it too). thanks, in advance.

gr800@sbcglobal.net asked:


I have full custody of my 15 year old son. Recently I started allowing him to visit with his father, whom I have been divorced from for over 5 years. I have no knowledge of what activities his father have been involved in nor occurs in his home.

While my son was visiting, cops came to his home in search of him. Upon their search, drug paraphenelia were found. I was notified by a social worker of this incident. She then opened an investigation against me only and not his father.

Is this standard procedure in the state of California?

Please help.
The drug paraphenelia was not my sons. And I already said I don’t know what goes on in my ex’s life. I thought I was doing the right thing by allowing a relationship between them.