Monique M asked:


I lived and worked in Chicago for five years before moving back to Michigan after my company was sold and I divorced. While I have a job here in Michigan, I would love to return to Chicago. Most of my job searching turns up local applicants only though. A friend of mine is more than willing to let me use her address, though it doesn’t address the fact that my current job is still here in Michigan. Any ideas?
Unfortunately, I cannot afford to move to Chicago without having a job in place first, though to my benefit, I can afford to move there immediately once hired and get an apartment as my entire apartment is in storage in Chicago.

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Martha S asked:


A friend of ours decided his house was to much for him since he was divorcing his wife so my husband and I moved into the house and told him as soon as the divorce was final we would buy it. We gave him the money each month for the mortgage payment and when his divorce went final we started the paperwork at the bank to get the loan for the house which we are about two weeks away from closing on due to a problem with the title search that had to get straightened out. We just found out today that he hasn’t been paying the house payment at all and if his mortgage company doesn’t have the last 3 payments by monday they are foreclosing on him. We live here not him and we are so close to closing anyone know how this will affect us getting the house. We really don’t want to move or loose the property it is perfect for us and our family but since he just dropped this on us we are scared we are going to be thrown out on the street.
We have not only paid the payments to him but also gave him $10,000 down which we have in writing with his signature, he doesn’t have any money and is filing bankruptcy so if we loose the house we have lost our home and 10k
We are buying the house for 125k and he owes 89562 on it. After paying for appraisals, title search, insurance among house payment and utilities and giving him the down payment we can’t come up with 2300 to catch up the payments he didn’t pay.

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SandraDee asked:


I’m 14 almost 15 and I’ve wanted a lip piercing for about 2 years now. I have thought about this a lot and done a lot of searching for other peoples thoughts on ho wto convince them.
I have talked to my mom and dad before.
My parents are divorced. My dad doesn’t really care and he’ll take me as long as my mom says yes. I’ve talked to my mom and she says I can’t until I’m 18.

I don’t really care what your thoughts are on lip piercings like they look bad or stuff like that. I’m only asking for way to convince them to let me get it done.

Thanks.

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flawolfchild asked:


I have been seperated from my husband for almost 4 yrs and am unable to find an attorney to take my case that I can afford. I have pursued child support enforcement through the state of Fl but when my spouse found out he left his job of 18yrs because the state is taking so long to get him. He thinks he will get out of paying. I desperately need help but because I have a decent job making decent money I do not qualify for any state or gov. assistance nor do I belong to any church or social group that is willing to come to my aide in my time of need. My only option is an attorney that is going to go after this deadbeat like a bulldog. Yet as hard as I have searched I can not find one even the state wants a $600 up frt retainer I just cant fit that into my budget as it’s hard enough to fit groceries. I am not looking for a hand out or a pity party just an honest ligitamate attorney that will waive the retainer and make the husband pay in all avenues available.

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meatpiemum asked:


What is the etiquette for a divorce party? I am invited to one by a dear friend who is in her late 50s. The divorce was terribly painful.

I don’t know if I am supposed to bring a gift, a card and, if so, what is suitable? Something wishing her well in this new phase of her life?

I searched yahoo answers and found suggestions for games, dirty jokes, etc., but that’s not my style at all, or hers. I am saddened by her divorce; I have known them both for a long time and was at their wedding. I guess I have mixed feelings about the whole thing. Thanks for any advice you can offer.

Charzy asked:


I was married for 36 years and just recently divorced him. I have no regrets, but I have not had closure. In searching for closure, I discovered that he has a narcissistic personality. Part of the problem is that I still love him and really did not want to be single again, but I could not live with the mental abuse and the other personality disorders, which I could not identify, until now, but experienced them. I am trying to heal, and I am, but there is still so much that is still bothering me.

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Lily asked:


My husband is gona file for a divorce and he’s gona pay for it and I just want to know how much does it cost? We’ve been married for 2yrs, no kids. We live in NYC. Does anyone know prices or if I will need a lawyer? Please anyone let me know because I want to be ready. This is the most painful thing I’ve gone through. I want to know all the info and searching for it has become so frustrating and stressful. Any help will be appreciated, thanks.
Does it matter?? How does that have anything to do with it?? He said we don’t get along and just got tired of fights, how is dat answering my question?? Thankx for nothing. I NEED HELP KNOWING THE PRICES SO ANYONE PLEASE HELP.

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Timinator . asked:


…home from the mall if she arrived there at 9 in the morning?

It’s been two days….should I report my wife missing?

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Yahoo cracks me up!
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Kelli P asked:


I’m a divorced parent living in Texas. My divorce papers state that as the custodial parent, I cannot reside in any other state. The judge told me during my hearing that I can get that changed at a later date if I wanted to. That later date has come! My ex husband has no desire to fight it. I’ve done numerous searches online, but I can’t seem to find anything that will tell me what exactly I need to do to get this part of my divorce papers changed. Is there anyone out there who knows? Any help or direction is greatly appreciated!

Penny’s from Heaven asked:


Since finding out about my husbands adultry, I’ve been scrambling to find a lawyer. As a homemaker, I’ve been thrust into searching for employment. Until a job is found, I have no source of income for myself and my 2 children… outside of what my husbands promises to give.

I have looked into all 3 options, but have no idea which is best. I’m tending to lean away from divorce as I will need and outside witness to testify that he did, indeed, cheat. His admitting it is not enough in the State of Ohio. So far, he has complied with all of my wishes, but this could soon end when reality sinks in and he realises what he has lost and is about to lose.

What is the best of these 3 choices and why?

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